You are essentially playing emotional detective, and participating in this line of obsessive thinking transmits a desperate, needy vibe that men can intuitively pick up on.
When you go on a quest to figure out how he feels, your fears and insecurities will inevitably get activated and this will come across.
When you want a guy and aren’t sure if he wants you back, your mind can’t help but stress over how he feels.
You tally up the signs he likes you, you go over every interaction, you read into every single text looking for clues.
A lot of our readers are in these types of situations; that’s probably what led them to A New Mode to begin with.